JOHN HARRISON
Army Officer. Marriage Therapist. Men's Coach.
Helping Men Win at Work and at Home
You're Not Losing Your Edge.
You're Running a Pattern You Can't See.
"I walk through the door and I've got nothing left for my family."
"No matter what I do, it's never enough—for her or for anyone."
"I'm tired of losing my shit—and my kids are watching."
Sound familiar?
You've won. The career. The income. The family.
But winning feels like losing. You're exhausted. Disconnected. Going through the motions at home.
And the harder you push, the worse it gets.
You're not broken. You're running a pattern you can't see.
The Old Playbook Is Failing You
You've tried pushing harder. Exercising more. Appeasing your wife. Succeeding your way out of it.
None of it worked because none of it addressed the root.
The problem isn't effort. It's the pattern running underneath.
You learned a long time ago that your worth comes from performing. From winning. From proving you're enough.
That worked, until it didn't.
Now you're exhausted from trying to satisfy everyone. And you're still not happy.
That's not a character flaw. That's a pattern. And patterns can be healed.
Same Drive. Less Stress. More Wins.
What if you could:
- Come home excited not drained?
- Feel strong AND connected not choosing between work and family?
- Trust yourself again without second-guessing every move?
- Have fun without guilt or your mind racing?
That's not about doing more.
It's about clearing what's in the way so your drive actually produces results.
The question you're really asking: "Does that part of me have to die?"
It doesn't. I'll show you the way through.
I'm John Harrison...
8 years as an Army Officer. I learned what it takes to lead under pressure and what it costs.
15+ years as a therapist. I watched high-performing men exhaust themselves trying to prove they're enough.
I've been where you are. I know the exhaustion. The disconnection. The constant trying harder that makes it worse.
Here's what I know:
The exhaustion isn't weakness. The disconnection isn't permanent. The frustration isn't failure.
It's proof the old pattern stopped working.
I help men see what they can't see, address the root of their issues, and lead themselves differently so winning doesn't cost them everything.
Your Edge - Evolved
1:1 Coaching Program
12 weeks. 3 major wins. A completely different way of leading your life.
Not with more strategies. Not with more doing. But by meeting the pattern at the root. Building self-trust. Then executing.
You'll walk away with:
- Win #1: Work — Accomplish more by forcing less
- Win #2: Marriage — Actually present, not performing
- Win #3: Self-Discipline — Keep your word to yourself again
You're not just getting a strategy. You're getting a new operating system—where winning doesn't cost you everything.
This Is For You If:
✅ Successful on paper, exhausted inside
✅ Disconnected from wife and kids—even though you're there
✅ Feel like you're losing your edge
✅ Asking: "Does the driven part of me have to die?"
✅ Ready to stop performing and start living
The Pattern Won't Heal Itself.
Every month you wait, the exhaustion deepens. The disconnection grows. The version of you that loves life gets harder to find.
12 weeks from now, you'll either be in the same place or living differently.
You're not the problem. The pattern is. Let's change it.
15 Questions Every Man Should Answer
A 10-minute assessment showing exactly where you're stuck and what's creating the stress
